A Relaxed Human

Clematis montana creates stunning window view
Clematis montana creates stunning window view
Enkianthus frames the garden view
Flowering Enkianthus ‘ Red Velvet’ frames the garden view
Dwarf Iris in combination with Phlox subulata
Dwarf Iris in combination with Phlox subulata with Highbush Blueberry foliage behind

Martha Beck reminds us that a relaxed human and a healthy human are one. (“The Easier Way to Diet” , The Oprah Magazine, June 2009). Further a healthy human stays trim effortlessly because the beastie brain doesn’t need to go into defensive mode. Reading her article this morning my thoughts wander to the relaxation “prayer” I learned in my meditation group that I ask myself to voice whenever I begin to feel the beastie’s tension rise. “May I be at ease with things are they are”.  (BTW–being at ease doesn’t free one from responsible action). Take a deep breath. My garden helps me with this process. The bit of land I steward. It really doesn’t belong to me. Its’ magic orchestrated but totally dependent on weather patterns and climatic variations.  This year I celebrate the pink lilac so passionately full and fragrant–a gift to my senses each time I pass within its charms.

So much has happened in the garden since I last wrote. Too much to catalog. I find myself delighted (and relaxed!) with the peonies so voluptuously in bud. It’s more than a sensual promise somehow–perhaps a gift of possibility. The southern side of the garden blesses me with a window view full of pink clematis, a enkianthus boasting its generative powers with enthusiastic coverage of “red” bells (I’m challenged to describe that particular red), while nearby a mass of deep purple dwarf iris combining with pink ground phlox metaphorically knock me out!  The viburnum ‘Shasta’  flowers with such abundance–last year I was worried because nary a bloom! Embracing such beauty finds me breathing deeply with much appreciation and becoming that relaxed human. Martha Beck is spot on with her advice, and  I  think that inhaling beauty with all our senses helps the constantly renewing process of  becoming a relaxed human.

Dwarf iris adds to window sill composition
Dwarf iris adds to window sill composition
Viburnum p. 'Shasta' opening into full flower
Viburnum p. 'Shasta' opening into full flower

One response to “A Relaxed Human”

  1. Maria, A beautiful, thoughtful and deeply felt posting. You have a gift, connecting the experience of daily life with the life of plants in such a profound manner. Thank you for this.

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